Now a person who has been in a relationship, marital crisis, separation, divorce, a long-term relationship breakdown or extremely difficult circumstances, have been HURT and hurt wreaks our hearts and mind. All of a sudden you are bombarded with a lot of emotional conflicts and decisions to make. We are stuck at the crossroad. Right or Left? Yes or no? May be or May be not? Should I stay or should I leave? Will I be able to move on?
The very thought of leaving the relationship can jolt us because we are plagued with a lot of fears.
Well, it’s natural to feel the fear, the real challenges come whether you are challenging the fear or you are letting the fear overpower you. These fears are like loud static that makes it hard to hear our inner voice, causing us to feel confused and distancing us away from the clarity within us all.
If I could have it any way I wanted, if anything was possible, what would I want?
Deep down, what do I desire?
What’s the truth of this situation?
When we are emotionally charged and hurt, then that generally clouds the judgment of taking the right decision. Emotional pain is one of the strongest emotions there is, and it can not only cloud our thinking but also our faith. It’s often the misconceptions we build in our minds rather than our circumstances that cloud our ability to see. Hence, first you need to gather yourself and then think and sit with it.
We all get confused at times, but prolonged periods of confusion can cause us to feel that we are stuck in a never-ending, foggy web of uncertainty. Confusion can make us feel powerless, anxious, stressed and a whole host of other draining emotions.
To move from confusion to clarity, it’s not enough to simply go inside, find the answers, and leave it at that. It matters what you do with the answers once you have them. try to trust whatever emerged from your inner voice, even if it doesn’t yet make sense to you.
A crossroad is merely a moment in time when you pause to reflect on your current position. Without it, you may never appreciate the intricacy or the strength, that truly is the footing of the relationship. Anything out of the ordinary can cause stress in a relationship.
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