He Doesn’t Hit me, BUT
25 year old Saniya was in a 3 year relationship with Anuj. While Anuj would be romantic and caring at times, he would often shout at Saniya and hold her responsible for things that would go wrong in his life. It was apparently HER Fault that “he didn’t get promoted” or that “his friends mistreated him”. Saniya was sort of a punching bag for Anuj to vent out his frustration. Strangely, he would apologise for it later and often say “I know you are not the best, but I love you just the same”. For 3 years she struggled with emotional turmoil & couldn’t understand if Anuj loved her or not.
Saniya soon started losing confidence, avoiding friends and eventually stopped believing in herself. She somewhere started believing she DESERVES to be treated this way because she Wasn’t good enough to be loved. It was fine, till Saniya realized NOBODY deserves to be treated like this and that she was a victim of emotional Abuse.
How Counselor Liza helped her uphold Self Esteem & regain Self Worth
How Saniya felt better
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